You may not even think it is worth your effort or time to get it or throw some investment to it.
It is sad to say that we human have a very high tendency to remember bad things that happened in the past and instantaneously forget recent good thing.
We grow by learning from experience, striving success by avoiding failure. Remembering bad things is a way to avoid us from getting ourselves hurt. This is a fact that can't be change unless you are a fool.
Let just imagine bad things are dust and good thing is gold. Your good work can be remarkably beautiful deed you ever done to other, as long as you make 1 wrong move your gold will be corrode and be covered by dust. We love to complain and try to re-correct a person which is like try to clean the dust, as we clean the dust , it flew everywhere and will even reduce our sight. Hence blinding us even more from seeing the gold.
Sometime we get even angrier as we count the bad deed. We can even repeat counting from the start which is same like cleaning the dust and not knowing the dust was the one we cleared earlier but land back on the ground.
We can do 10 good things this month, but once we did wrong. He/She will remember the 9 bad thing you done in the past 9 months.
Yes, there is a way to settle this thing. Dusting them is definitely a no go. You just need to SUCK it up like a vacuum. There is no point complaining or scolding. If he/she felt guilty and bad about it, they will change. Scolding or complain will just make it worse! Plus, once you start complain you lose your right to do so.
They say is not easy to be someone that can see the Gold as it is and polish your view on it. I tell you, is very easy to see the polished view when you already lost it. You wanted to appreciate it once it gone or start suck it up, polished your view and enjoyed the gold you been offered. 
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