People are using quotes to oppress, manipulate, confuse other and they just simply use it without putting a meaning in it. Quotes are meant to inspire, motivate, feed others mind.
Everyone are given quotes for them yet they couldn't grab a hint, simply because the person that gave such advice doesn't put a meaning in it and expect them to understand by themselves.
There are a lot of examples for me to put but it gonna be a drag. So i shall start with something I came across recently.
Time will Heal and Moving on
It make logical sense that overtime will a person but Wrong! Have you forgotten there is such quote " No one and nothing can help yourself unless you make a decision on it."? A person got into his down time mainly due to his recent found HOLE in his heart. Are you suggesting putting TIME to fill up the HOLE? The wound won't heal if he does not decide what to use to fill up the HOLE. Or he could just shrunk the Hole by making other priority bigger.
Let say it is about relationship, A bf or GF; Are you gonna find another person to fill this HOLE? Well you can, but the drama gonna repeat since you fill the Hole with a Person and that Hole was left by a Person.
In this World there are so many thing you can do without romance, it will be best if you could do it with your buddies. Games, Travelling, Work, Eat, Hobby, and etc. You can even get a pet if you got lonely in those sleepless night.
Moving on, is not because you lost the feeling and able to move on. A person can move on fast does not mean he able to let go the feeling easy or he had not much feeling. A person move on because he is able to withstand the Pain of letting it go. " Pain made a Person Strong" Human brain is so good that it can spark up any feeling in the past whether is a Guy or Girl. But don't use this excuse to go find your EX, is not worth it.
You may use this excuse "Say is easier than Done" and such lazy reason so you can cling to your past remember those miserable days. Wake up! I would say " Doing it is Easier than I convincing you"! You need to make a stand and decide to continue your life without a specific person. You got so many person in your life, so many thing there are in the world for you to see.
Let's say you're 25, you got a bf/gf for 2 years. You live a lonely life for 23 years and now you can't continue with it?
Holding a filled cup is harder than an empty cup, so i shall let you try holding that cup for 1 month or may be 1 week. You will definitely feel sore and tired too. Make a decision, take the pain and let it go.
If you can't withstand such pain, you will never be ready for the next coming relationship even though he or she is the right one. We need to grow through hardness and pain to be stronger.
Hence, you are able to Move on given a period of Time.
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